What to Know About ProDomme Sessions
There are many wonderful reasons to consider serving a ProDomme! However, it is important to acknowledge that serving a Professional is not for everyone; many submissives are only seeking a lifestyle dynamic and I wholeheartedly celebrate that!
For those curious about or interested in serving a ProDomme, it can be helpful to know a few things up front:
Why see a Professional Dominatrix?
Exploration of kinks: A Professional Dominatrix can help you explore and understand your unique kinks and fantasies in a safe and consensual environment. They can guide you through a journey of self-discovery, helping you better understand your desires and boundaries.
Expertise in BDSM: They possess knowledge and skills in BDSM practices, ensuring a responsible and dynamic experience.
Discretion and Confidentiality: They understand the importance of discretion and maintain strict confidentiality to ensure your privacy is protected.
Non-judgmental environment: You can openly express your desires without fear of judgment, fostering a supportive and understanding space.
Specialized equipment and space: Professionals have access to specialized equipment and often have dedicated spaces to enhance the BDSM experience.
Professionalism: They approach their work with professionalism, ensuring that sessions are well-planned, consensual, and catered to your mutual interests.
What is a tribute?
A tribute is a financial gift given to your Domme in appreciation for their time, energy, and expertise. What happens during that time is up to your Domme to decide. Some professionals determine their tributes based on activities, so make sure you are clear on expectations.
How much are tributes?
In the Boston/Greater Boston area, you can expect tributes to range from $250/hr-$500/hr based on level of experience, cost of rental space/hotel, and level of demand. Many ProDommes offer different tribute packages based on activity or frequency of sessions, so expect a wider tribute range.
My tributes reflect over 10 years in the lifestyle, my luxury space, and sought-after status.
My tributes for foot worship only sessions are different from all other sessions.
Sessions
How long are sessions?
However long you negotiate! Personally, I require a minimum of 1.5hrs - with a preference for even more time! The only exception I make is for foot worship sessions, which I accept a minimum of 1 hour.
What is the process to book a session?
Message me! Make sure your message includes your name, general interests, experience level, and general availability. Pay attention to honorifics, spelling, and grammar. If you message me on FetLife, expect that I will quickly transition our conversation to text.
If our interests are aligned, I will set up a time to meet with you for coffee. This is a wonderful chance to get to know each other before booking your first session.
After our opportunity to meet, I will offer a time or two for you to book your first session. In order to lock in your desired date and time, be prepared to pay a deposit.
Where are you located?
My loft is 10min from the New Hampshire border and right off 495. Coffee dates will be close to that area.
Can I see you today?
No. Though some professionals accept a day of booking, I do not.
What does a professional session look like?
Each ProDomme is unique! Their style, preferred activities, and level of aftercare (if provided) vary vastly. All sessions start by agreeing upon a time and place. Once you are allowed into the ProDomme’s space, you can expect instruction on where to leave your tribute, level of dress, and any rules or restrictions.
Most sessions start with a symbolic acceptance of your submission (like putting on a collar) and a warm up activity that helps transition your headspace from daily life into your negotiated play. The intensity of activities and roleplay generally trends towards a peak experience and concludes with a transitional activity to take you safely back into the rest of your day.
What are the rules?
Each Professional has their own set of rules. In my sessions:
You will only address me as Ms. Fox or Mistress.
You are not allowed to touch me without my permission.
If there is something you would like to explore, you may ask me politely. Graciously accept whatever response you are given.
Your safeword is ‘red.’ You are encouraged to use your safeword whenever needed and I will immediately stop what I am doing and check in. It does not mean your session is over or that you have failed or disappointed me in any way.
Is sex negotiable?
No. Slaves are never gifted with my nudity or access to the intimate areas of my body.
What are ‘doubles sessions?’
Two Dom/mes at once! It is an amazing experience and worth the additional tribute. I am incredibly fortunate to have a large network of kick ass professionals, both men and women, with whom I love to play! Expect to pay twice the tribute so both professionals are compensated appropriately.
How can I stand out as an exemplary slave?
Personal hygiene is very important; make sure you freshen up, brush your teeth, and avoid overly strong colognes. Tips & gifts go a long way; they are never required but always appreciated. Gift ideas can be found on your Domme’s wishlist and often include nylons, shoes, fetish wear, fetish gear, or gift cards. You can also ask your Domme their coffee/lunch preferences and pick up their favorite on your way!
In kink,
Ms. Fox